I always found it strange that my family hated reminiscing.
They were so busy obsessing about survival that there wasn’t a lot of time for sentimentality. Perhaps it was too painful or maybe they had some awareness it could make people sad. I think this was common in Industrial communities.
Only when they were drunk could they relax enough to look back. Even then it was without photos or keepsakes. They rather preferred stories or maybe I should describe them as glimpses into the past.
It meant that I couldn’t get full pictures about what characters were really like. Only occasional stories.
Whatever the reason, academic storytelling was seen as a weakness possibly because it made something of the past which for them was just everyday life. I can understand that. They were hard days
Whatever the reason, it was absolutely horrific living in such a controlled environment.